queersecrets:

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“I don’t care about the L Word, Tegan and Sara or Lady Gaga.  I don’t know different gender terms. I only know that I’m a lesbian.  And I feel like an outsider in the gay community.”

I don’t know of absolutely anyone offline who knows “different gender terms” (if by that you mean non-binary gender identities), so I don’t see how that makes you an outsider. Lesbian or not, your flippant attitude is quite binarist. Knowing that non-binary people exist is not a “gay thing,” it’s about not erasing people.

Regarding the other 3 things you mentioned, just fuck anyone who thinks liking them are prerequisites to joining “the gay club.” Like, seriously.